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The bus, crammed with children, pulled over on Daniell Street.\u00a0 From my seat near the back I glanced up and noticed a lone passenger exiting the bus: my sister.\u00a0 Startled, I got up and followed her.<\/p>\n

If Joan was leaving, then I must, too: our mother had told us to stick together.\u00a0 So I hurried to catch up, not pausing to consider that this wasn\u2019t our stop\u2014we lived miles from here\u2014or that Joan wouldn\u2019t have left the bus without me.\u00a0 But logical thinking is not a strength when you\u2019re four and three-quarter years old.<\/p>\n

We were returning from a theater show\u2014the sort of low-budget production they pack children off to during summer vacation, as much to entertain them as to give their harassed parents a few precious hours of peace.\u00a0 Kids from our neighborhood were bussed downtown to a makeshift theater in a school gymnasium, and duly bussed home after the performance.\u00a0<\/p>\n

As we took our seats for the return journey, our perky young supervisor stood up front and announced a change of plan: instead of sitting next to our friends and siblings, we were to mix ourselves up and sit next to someone we didn\u2019t already know.\u00a0 This, she assured us, above a chorus of groans, would be \u201cfun\u201d and a \u201cgreat way of making new friends.\u201d\u00a0 With utmost reluctance, I slid from the seat I shared with Joan and found an empty place further down the bus, beside a random stranger.\u00a0 Both of us were mute with shyness.<\/p>\n

The instruction to \u201cmix ourselves up\u201d proved unhappily prophetic.\u00a0 Within moments of stepping onto the sidewalk, I got a better look at the girl I\u2019d followed and realized my blunder.\u00a0 I sprinted after the departing bus, but it was gathering speed and my yells for it to stop were drowned out by the roar of the engine.\u00a0 Soon it was swallowed up in traffic, my sister still aboard.<\/p>\n

Strictly speaking, I\u2019d seen a girl with chestnut hair pulled back into a ponytail<\/em> exit the bus.\u00a0 Yet she looked, from behind at least, so strikingly similar to my big sister Joan, that it didn\u2019t occur to me that it might not be her.<\/p>\n

So there I was, alone under the midday sun.\u00a0 The girl from the bus had already vanished down a side street.\u00a0 Bewildered as a nestling fallen from a tree, I was at a loss over what to do next.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Although stranded, I was not lost.\u00a0 My parents sometimes shopped at a supermarket a couple of blocks away, often with me in tow, so I knew where I was, more or less, and it was too far to walk.<\/p>\n

Daniell Street ran parallel to the main street through Newtown, a bustling city-edge precinct populated by immigrants, the elderly, young families and small businesses.\u00a0 Auto repair shops, greengrocers and food import businesses operated at arbitrary intervals alongside narrow, tin-roofed cottages.\u00a0 Cabbage roses rambled unkempt in minuscule front yards.\u00a0<\/p>\n

As I looked around for help or inspiration, a colorful building at the end of the street drew my eye:\u00a0 a ramshackle wooden structure with a scarlet front door and hand-painted mural.\u00a0 I walked up to this curious place, and inside found an adult to whom I explained my predicament.\u00a0<\/p>\n

This decision turned out to be a good one.\u00a0 The place was a community center, run by a crew of amiable bohemians who took me under their collective wing.\u00a0 A bearded young man shared his brown-bagged lunch with me, blanching when I wolfed down more of it than he expected.\u00a0 Then he and his colleagues tackled the thorny issue of how to find my parents.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Being unable to remember my home address or phone number, I was of little assistance.\u00a0 I did however know the route home by sight, and offered to point out which streets to take, if someone could drive me.\u00a0 The adults were not supportive of this idea.\u00a0 Maybe they didn\u2019t believe a young child could navigate such a long distance.\u00a0 Maybe they couldn\u2019t spare anyone from their work duties.\u00a0 Maybe they didn\u2019t have use of a car.\u00a0 Or perhaps they did, but worried how it might look, to be found alone in a vehicle with a missing child.\u00a0<\/p>\n

While the grown-ups played detective, I drifted out of the office and amused myself in the center grounds, making mud pies and fairy gardens.\u00a0 It was a strange feeling, to reside in this little haven of calm, if only for an afternoon.\u00a0 Although half-aware that I was in the peaceful eye of a tornado, I didn\u2019t fret about what I knew would happen later.<\/p>\n

Somehow my parents arrived to collect me.\u00a0 My hippie guardians congregated on the sidewalk to bid me farewell, our happy chatter morphing abruptly as my exasperated mother leapt out of our car, not with hugs but a good walloping.\u00a0 Scolds ringing sharp, she bundled me into the backseat.\u00a0<\/p>\n

The center\u2019s red door swirled and receded through a blur of tears, as our car drove away.\u00a0 \u201cI hope you\u2019ve learned your lesson,\u201d fumed my mother from the front seat, beginning a sporadic tirade that would continue until bedtime.\u00a0 My sister Joan scowled at me, eyes narrowed in contempt, scooting as far away as she could by pressing herself against the car door.\u00a0 Probably she\u2019d gotten yelled at, or worse, for failing to supervise me properly.\u00a0<\/p>\n

I curled up as well, pressing my brow into the pungent vinyl upholstery.\u00a0 Sorrow was my predominant emotion.\u00a0 Simmering beneath, gradually being absorbed, were the lessons of the day: the kindness of strangers, the coldness of my family, and the perils of being distracted while travelling.<\/p>\n

Twelve years later I would flee the family home, embarking on another bus journey that would see me alight on a city street, alone and dependent upon my intuition.\u00a0 On that occasion, I\u2019d be utterly confident that, somehow, I could successfully navigate my way to the right people.<\/p>\n

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